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Relationship check-in message

Start a caring talk about how you two are doing.

Free to start. Works on Android, in Chrome and on the web.

Relationship check-in
What's on your mind?We barely talk since I started nights, I miss us
Aim
  • Just check in
  • Raise a concern
  • Plan time together
Approach
  • Gentle
  • Direct
  • Light
Length
  1. Short
  2. Medium
  3. Long
Write my check-in

How it works

  1. Say what's on your mind

    Rough is fine, like how you barely talk since you started working nights.

  2. Pick your aim

    Just check in, raise a concern or plan time together. Choose a gentle, direct or light approach.

  3. Send or say it

    Make it softer or more direct, or add some appreciation, then copy it.

An example

What's on your mind?

we barely talk since i started nights i miss us want to plan time together gentle

Your check-in

Hey, can I tell you something that's been on my mind? Since I started nights it feels like we pass each other in the hallway more than we actually talk, and I miss us. Could we pick one evening a week that's just ours? I'd really like that.

Then make it yours

  • Softer
  • More direct
  • Add appreciation
  • Shorter
  • Try again

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Questions, answered

Is it free?

Yes. The free plan gives you AI help every day, and Pro gives you about 10,000 AI actions a month. You sign in with Google or a code we email you, so your work follows you to every device.

Will it sound like AI?

It speaks from your side, about how you feel, so it opens a conversation instead of sounding like a complaint. It only brings up what you mention.

Can I use it on my phone?

Yes. Install the Preener keyboard for Android and open Relationship check-in from the keyboard in any app. Your account also works in Chrome and on the web.

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