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How to apologize after a fight

Reach out after an argument and own your part.

Free to start. Works on Android, in Chrome and on the web.

Make up after a fight
What happened?I snapped at him about the dishes when I was stressed
Your part
  1. Some of it
  2. Most of it
  3. All of it
Aim
  • Apologize
  • Reconnect
  • Talk it out
  • Break the ice
Write my message

How it works

  1. Say what happened

    Honestly and briefly, like snapping about the dishes when you were stressed.

  2. Own your part

    Some, most or all of it. Then choose to apologize, reconnect, talk it out or break the ice.

  3. Send when ready

    Make it more sincere, warmer or lighter, or take out any blame at all, then copy it.

An example

What happened?

i snapped at him about the dishes was stressed about work, not his fault most of it, apologize

Your message

I'm sorry for snapping at you about the dishes. I was stressed about work and took it out on you, and that wasn't fair. You didn't deserve that. Can we talk tonight? I'd like to make it right.

Then make it yours

  • More sincere
  • Warmer
  • Shorter
  • Lighter
  • No blame at all
  • Try again

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Questions, answered

Is it free?

Yes. The free plan gives you AI help every day, and Pro gives you about 10,000 AI actions a month. You sign in with Google or a code we email you, so your work follows you to every device.

Will it sound like AI?

It sticks to what happened and the part you choose to own, so the apology sounds sincere. It won't add excuses or promises you didn't make.

Can I use it on my phone?

Yes. Install the Preener keyboard for Android and open Make up after a fight from the keyboard in any app. Your account also works in Chrome and on the web.