PreenerHow to ask someone out over text
Ask someone out clearly, with no pressure.
Free to start. Works on Android, in Chrome and on the web.
- Casual
- Confident
- Sweet
- Funny
- Low-key
- Clear
- Very direct
How it works
Name the plan
Who they are and what you have in mind, like coffee this weekend.
Choose how direct
Casual, confident, sweet or funny, from low-key to very direct.
Send it
Make it more confident, make it clearly a date or add an easy out, then copy it.
An example
maya from my climbing gym coffee this weekend clear, casual
Hey Maya, it's [Your name] from the climbing gym. I'd like to take you for coffee this weekend if you're up for it. Saturday or Sunday, whichever suits you. No worries at all if not.
Then make it yours
- More confident
- More casual
- Make it a date
- Shorter
- Add an easy out
- Try again
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Questions, answered
Is it free?
Yes. The free plan gives you AI help every day, and Pro gives you about 10,000 AI actions a month. You sign in with Google or a code we email you, so your work follows you to every device.
Will it sound like AI?
It asks plainly and keeps it light, so the other person can say yes or no without pressure. It uses the plan you give and doesn't invent shared history.
Can I use it on my phone?
Yes. Install the Preener keyboard for Android and open Ask them out from the keyboard in any app. Your account also works in Chrome and on the web.