How to check in on a friend
Reach out with care and make it easy to reply.
Free to start. Works on Android, in Chrome and on the web.
- Friend
- Old friend
- Family
- Partner
- Coworker
- Just because
- Tough time
- Been a while
- After big news
- Light
- Caring
- Playful
How it works
Say who and why
Like an old friend after a breakup, or someone you haven't talked to in months.
Pick the reason
Just because, Tough time, Been a while or After big news. Choose Light, Caring or Playful.
Take the pressure off
Tap Less pressure or Suggest meeting up, then send it.
An example
haven't talked to leo since his breakup like a month ago want him to know i'm around, no pressure
Hey Leo, I've been thinking about you. I know the last month has probably been rough. No need to reply if you're not up for it. I just wanted you to know I'm around if you ever want to talk or get out of the house for a bit.
Then make it yours
- Lighter
- Less pressure
- Suggest meeting up
- Shorter
- Try again
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Questions, answered
Is it free?
Yes. The free plan gives you AI help every day, and Pro gives you about 10,000 AI actions a month. You sign in with Google or a code we email you, so your work follows you to every device.
Will it sound like AI?
It sounds like a friend texting, short and low-key, without heavy lines like "I'm always here for you" stacked on top of each other. It makes it easy for them to answer when they're ready.
Can I use it on my phone?
Yes. Install the Preener keyboard for Android and open Check in on someone from the keyboard in any app. Your account also works in Chrome and on the web.